Some of the most meaningful moments I’ve ever captured didn’t happen in golden hour fields or perfectly styled nurseries. They happened in normal backyards with flying beachballs, or in living rooms where piano duets with father and son took center stage. Let’s talk about the beauty of unscripted photo sessions.
The truth is, real connection doesn’t require for perfect light or matching outfits. It lives in the everyday: the way your toddler climbs into your lap without asking, the mess of toys at your feet, the quiet look exchanged with your partner over your child’s head. These aren’t staged moments. They’re honest ones. And they’re the ones that last.
One of my goals for the coming years is to prioritize unscripted photo sessions. To document more families by photographing them during a simple, familiar activity – something they already do together. It could be splashing in their swimming pool on a lazy summer day, baking cookies, carving jack-o-lanterns on the porch, or playing a favorite board game. These are the rituals that shape childhood. They may feel ordinary in the moment, but they become the heart of what we remember.
During sessions like this, I don’t direct much. I might gently guide the light or suggest where to stand for the best composition, but I let the story unfold naturally. The magic is in the in-between. Sticky watermelon dripping down a toddler’s chin. A spontaneous kiss from a little one. A giggle that echoes through the whole neighborhood.
That’s where the magic is. Not in the pose, but in the presence.
So if you’re worried your home is too messy or your kids too wild, know this: the mess is part of the story. The wildness is part of the love. Your family, exactly as you are right now, is worthy of being documented. Documented not just for Instagram, but for the legacy you’re building every day.
Let’s capture that.
To see my advice on how to take better and more genuine images of your own children, check this out. To see more activity-type sessions, check out this work from the queen herself – Danielle Poff.